{RELATIONSHIP} I think she’s deceiving me

My name is Ugochukwu. I am in my thirties and doing quite well for my­self. I met this lady some years back and after about six months of dating, proposed to marry her and she accepted. I believe I take very good care of her as she does not ask before I provide what I can for her. I noticed recently, howev­er, that she does not pick my calls and returns them whenever she feels like, sometimes after a week or longer. This got me worried but I refused to let it affect my love for her. I have spoken to her about this and she promised to change her ways but has ended up even worse. Sometimes she does not pick my calls for days and when she eventually does, she comes up with one excuse or the other.
These excuses sound out of place most of the time, by the way. I am sick and tired of this behavior of hers. Don’t you think she is just stringing me on?
Dear Ugochukwu,
From the picture you have painted, this lady does not love you or have any feelings for you. She is exploit­ing you to her benefits. I feel you are only an option to her. I am sorry for being so blunt but you sound like a good person who has good intentions but who is being taken for a ride so I will tell you the truth. She has a lot she is hiding from you. I think you should move on and forget about her but before you do so, engage her in a straight talk. Do not try to be too nice, just tell her straight faced that you think she is only stringing you along, because my dear, she is! Her heart is somewhere else and not with you. Please open your eyes and be careful. Wishing you the very best.